How many countless hours have you spent trying to make a relationship work, only to find out that ALL of your effort has been in vain? You have tried and tried, and things appear to get worse. You initiate ALL the calls and the texts, and you’re left wondering why did I even bother. You may have even promised yourself from now on, it has to be ALL or NONE. But after some time past and the frustration wears off, you fall right back into the same unhealthy situation.

This scenario was once me until decided once and for ALL that in my relationships it has to be ALL or NONE!!!

I prayed and worried and worried and prayed, wondering why I gave my ALL, only to receive another’s … well you already know. But once I purposed in my heart and mind that it will be ALL or NONE things changed. I changed, those around me changed. We have what we tolerate. If you want things to be different , you must be willing to make the change. Change is sometimes painful but necessary. It must be ALL or NONE!!!

Here are a few thoughts for change, when you find yourself giving your ALL in any relationship, but receiving so much less in return.

• Communicate your desire to have ALL or NONE in your relationship.

• Decide to only accept ALL or NONE.

• Accept nothing less than ALL.

Relationships are a vital part of our lives!!! Make the best of each one. There should never be a “halfway” in your relationships. Purpose in your heart and mind today that it will be ALL or NONE!!!

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